Jobette Is a Miracle
A True Story*#
Jobette's
mother was not supposed to be able to have children, so when she was blessed
with a baby girl, Maggie found her miracle at age forty-three.
Nine years
younger than Maggie, Jobette's father was a loving man—unless he was drunk.
Then, he became a demon. Booze changed Jesse into a violent abuser.
Maggie told
people she ran into a door or fell down the stairs, any lie so no one would
know Jesse hit her. Maggie's brother knew better, and he warned Jesse, "If
my sister runs into another door, you're a dead man."
Jesse's
drinking kept him out of work. The family often had no place to live and were
homeless. When Jobette was nine months old and just taking her first steps,
they lived under a bridge over a creek—in January.
Maggie stayed
with Jesse no matter how many times he hit her, but on this winter night,
things changed.
On the morning
of her birth, Jesse had named his daughter, so they had the same initials. He
loved Jobette when he was sober. On this night, Jesse found money for liquor
and came home to the "camp" under the bridge, intoxicated. In that
state, Jesse decided Jobette was not
his child. First, he rationalized in an alcoholic haze, he would have had a
boy, not a girl. Second, Jobette was a redhead. Both Jesse and Maggie had dark
hair, but Jobette's maternal grandmother was a redhead. Upon his false epiphany
that Jobette was not his child, he threw the toddler into the icy creek to
drown.
Maggie couldn't
swim, but she somehow rescued Jobette and walked away from Jesse that night.
Jobette's
hardships didn't stop there. Maggie was diabetic and completely disabled.
Therefore, Maggie drew a government check, and Jobette grew up poor. She
received a welfare check, was covered by Medicaid and food stamps, ate free
lunch at school. Her clothes were often altered hand-me-downs or purchased at
Fred's Dollar Store.
Jobette's mom
was a woman of faith and raised her daughter to have faith. Maggie only
graduated high school, but she encouraged Jobette to strive for more.
Still, it
seemed bad things kept happening to Jobbette. When she was thirteen, her best
friend's stepfather molested her. She kept this secret for years, until he did
it to someone else.
Jobette kept a
lot buried, but she wrote about her feelings often. And! Jobette was smart. She
never gave up. She realized the only way out of her poverty was her faith and education.
She graduated high school at the top of her class and won a full scholarship to
college.
Just when it
appeared her life was on the way to perfect, more adversity came her way. Her
mother died unexpectedly the summer after her first year of college. That could
have ended her dream of being the first person in her family to get a college
degree. Yet, she persevered and got that degree!
She married,
had a family, divorced. One trial after other plagued her, but Jobette was a
miracle…
What do you think
Jobette is doing today?
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